I won't say this is the terrible twos, because my child isn't terrible, but I have noticed a change the last few weeks. It seems that we have a combination of factors that are all brewing together to make a Mr. Hyde version of my sweet Patrick boy.
The problem factors are: 1) teething and growing are just rough. 2)Patrick can communicate with us now, but not perfectly. 3) when I do understand what he is saying, that doesn't always mean he will still get what he wants. 4) He was getting a little too hooked on movies, and so last week we cut him off cold turkey. We now have a once a week family movie night. The withdrawals this week have been rough.
When these factors combine, I get a day full of lots of short (thankfully) dramatic tantrums. The biggest problem is that when he is frustrated he now wants to hit me, and that is not acceptable.
The good things: 1) He knows how to do time-out -- where to sit, how long, how to say sorry. This works for a while, until the next fit. 2) His tantrums are not very long, a few minutes maybe. 3) He still has sweet moments when he just wants to sit on my lap and read books.
This weekend has been rejuvenating. I am hoping the same for Patrick.